Nowhere Land

and okay, im sorry Ushi, i take all my words back if that makes you better, hope so. i was wrong.

never mind....
I´m sorry , too , because i came here in "killing mood"...
shouldn´t do that...

no, i came in that mood.

So we came both here in bad mood ?
makes that little clash somehow funny.....in hindsight .

but again...i shouldn´t have blown up...

can you please stop off-toppic??

on-toppic: so how are you?

right now...?
most times I feel half - choking.
and all the other symptoms you have when you have the flu...
i don´t stand it very long outside bed....so exhausting...
But I have not bad mood .. :

so nice. hope you get better soon.
and i sent you answer on your mail this morning.

didn´t get it...*sneeze , cough*

thats so stupid, because that day when i wrote you about doc, i wrote real essay. ah well... i sent you messages every day, so seems not one is delivered.
was there nabbig some day in soadfans?

thta´s really sad.. and strange..if you don´t even get them back..
where do they go to ?

maybe you can use the other address..if you still have that essay , just copy...mustn´t write everything again. i know you´d hate that...

I´m not angry..i jus like that fist-pounding smiley...

nabbig..no , not once...I wonder about himmuch..

how are you ??

oh- you´re gone .... okay , i really must lay back now .
see you ...be good

nice to be a mod, right? can decide when stop spam, when continue.

well, i have it in 'sent' and it shows me that all messages are sent and delivered. i get all your mails, and send them back, seems you donty get answers. what can i say? germans...

im good.

Hi....good morning ( or whenever you come here)

I ´guess that´s not because of me being mod..
we are He Who Must Not Be Named-free...that´s it....

I love yahoo. !!..well , at least your messag egot through ..
finally...at least...the first one since some days....
yeah...gerrrmans...strange people...XD

great...I feel a little better...though everything tastes like paper still...
even coffee...
I can breathe better and lungs and back don´t hurt so much anymore...
no..I still haven´t anything to measure temperature...

I moved this topic to the serious discussin forum because it seemed to be one. I never moved it so you two can spam around. Stop that. We have PMs for that and we have the spam thread.

Otherwise I'll delete all definetly Spam posts and move the topic back to the written forum.

yeah, you are right Brad.

so how you people think, is it anti-patriotism when human goes to other country to work, but comes back time-by-time?

No,if they can't live,work and keep their family in their motherland

No vitamin, it is for sure not an anti-patriotism. Why should it be one?
Working at a place and loving your mother land can get separated.

I think at first we should clear the meaning of "Patriotism". It is an emotional attachment for the values, traditions, etc. of the own country. It's often connected with haughtiness, uncritical exaggerated pride combined with (political) attitude.

Let us assume that you live in your mother country. You grow up there, love it, practically pass mostly the half of your life there. You have wife and children. At home you're talking in your mother tongue.
Some day you need to travel because of work and notice, that the stay will probably be longer than you assumed. You take your wife and children and move to the according country you have to work in.
He still loves his mother country.
Through the distance, you miss it and start loving it even more. You learn to appreciate everything which is from there much more than you did before. You listen to your folk music with tearful eyes.

Even if you have the chance to come back time-by-time, it doesn't matter. Everytime you are there, your heart is crying and doesn't want to leave, but you also know, that the foreign country, in which you may only work, turns time-by-time to your second mother country. You learn to love their stuff, you get the feeling why they are patriotic by understanding their thoughts.
And what connects better than the same aspect and emotion?
So you not only love your mother country but also the other (otherwise you couldn't resist being there for a long time)

All I want to say is, that your bond to your mother country even grows, and it is not an anti-patriotism. People living abroad appreciate everything more than the domiciled people.

You also need to differentiate between patriotism and your individual freedom and decision.
When patritism constrict your personal freedom, than there is something wrong with your patriotism.

i agree with you. thought Sweetfan you live in pretty big country so you maybe dont feel it so much, but here 40% of people leaves country to go to work in Ireland or England. and people who live here and are fed and have roof over head call it anti-patriotism. what is patriotism? it is like prototype already in our days... 90% of people mix patriotism with nationalism, which is very wroing and practically opposite. patriotism is love, nationalism is hate.